Naturally, world (social) order
dictates that fans do the stalking when it comes to their celebrities. Law
courts world over have handled thousands of cases where celebrities have
complained of being stalked by obsessed nightmare super fans. I have never had
of a fan complaining of being followed around all day by a celebrity making a
nuisance of him/ herself!! Stalking can be defined as unwanted or neurotic
attention by an individual towards another. In Psychology & Psychiatry
(analysis) and also in some legal jurisdictions, stalking is a criminal
offence. Robert Dewey Hoskins was sentenced to ten years in prison for stalking
Madonna in 1996. He escaped from the mental institution where he was committed
and was back at his stalking business in 2012. This brings me to my point,
local singer Irene Ntale last month released a song titled ‘Gyobera’ (Where u
stay) that is now a sort of household hit. She is by all means a talented thing
standing on two very shapely female legs! However, am starting to believe she
is a stalker. Going by the song’s lyrics, it is clear that Ntale is obsessed
with the object of her desires; who obviously has no idea of her existence. By
the way, obsession is one of the major symptoms of stalking. She knows where he
stays and the room number on his muzigo plus probably how many checkered boxers
he has, trousers and the colour of his bed sheets. Ntale also has his number
and I am sure she has no connections in any of the telecommunication service
providers. She also knows the kafunda where he drinks and his favorite beer
although she does not mention it in the song…I am assuming it is obvious! She
continuously talks about how he uses boda bodas and the number of the guy who
rides it, what time he picks and drops him. Ntale claims to know all that
information (most of which is personal) because she resides in the same
neighborhood with the dude (Gyobera gyembela). This could be true but how many
of you know your neighbour’s every move or side dishes or if they are even
cheating on their spouses? I know of some people who do not even know their
immediate neighbour’s name and it is not that they are bad neighbours. If
Ntale’s behavior is not stalking then there must be a new definition of the
word that I am not aware of. In fact, if I were that dude in her neighborhood,
I would have slapped her with a law suit for being so dedicated to me (her fan)
that she went to such extreme measures. She is a stalker just!!
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